Family isn’t all about feelings, but a bond of unconditional love, despite all the difference. And with all the hate, pride and resentment you show towards each other,you’re still family,whether you like to admit or not. 
I mean we all have our difference,that’s obvious, but it shouldn’t keep us from what Christmas is truly all about, which is about love and family? And not worrying who bought what for who,or what you didn’t get or who said what to who. I mean who cares.
 If you can’t get over the nonsense, then how can you can say Merry Christmas to anyone, even family for that matter and hide hatred in your heart. Isn’t that a double standard and misrepresentation of what Christmas is all about.?
And since you guys have been family your whole lives,you obviously know that nobody’s perfect no matter what they say. 
You should always cherish all your family memories no matter how great or small.
So now your telling me that you are willing to throw it all way, over some disagreement that was said out of anger and frustration.
Your family, so you need to reflect on today and not the past. Which can never be changed no matter how you look at it. 

So build towards the future and don’t let your last family memory be over a disagreement.

Always remember, the only winner in the argument is the actual argument itself.

I mean we all have our difference,that’s obvious, but it shouldn’t keep us from what Christmas is truly all about, which is about love and family? And not worrying who bought what for who,or what you didn’t get or who said what to who. I mean who cares. If you can’t get over the nonsense, then how can you can say Merry Christmas to anyone, even family for that matter and hide hatred in your heart. Isn’t that a double standard and misrepresentation of what Christmas is all about.?